Helena Mary Duhon

1932 ∼ 2020

Helena Mary Duhon

Helena Mary Duhon, 87, of Benton, Illinois formerly of Port Arthur, Texas passed away June 13, 2020. She was born in Leonville, Louisiana on August 2, 1932 to the late Joseph Yves Hargroder and Lillian Richard Hargroder. Helena was a Physical Therapist for St. Mary’s Hospital before retiring.

Those left to cherish Helena’s memory are her children, Brenda Meche Toutcheque and her husband Roy of Vinton, Louisiana, Keith Meche and his wife Kathy of Nederland, Kathy Meche of Bridge City, Mona Meche Darbonne of Boulder, Colorado, Gregory Meche of Nederland, Deeanna Meche Demarest and her husband Mike of Longville, Louisiana, Melissa Meche Engel and her husband Creig of Salem, Illinois, and Kim Meche Chwascinski and her husband Scott of Benton, Illinois; 22 grandchildren; 29 great-grandchildren; 9 great-great-grandchildren; and her brother Lee Charles Hargroder of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. She is preceded in death by her parents; her husband LeRoy Duhon; and her granddaughter Rebecca Darbonne.

A gathering of family and friends will be held at Melancon’s Funeral Home in Nederland on Wednesday, June 17, 2020 from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Melancon’s Funeral Home on Thursday, June 18, 2020 at 10:00 a.m. with Rev. J. C. Coon celebrant. Interment will follow at Oak Bluff Memorial Park in Port Neches.

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DeeAnna Demarest August 3, 2025
Happy heavenly birthday mama ♥️ Can’t wait until we see each other again miss and love you!
DeeAnna Demarest June 14, 2025
Miss and love you mama ♥️♥️♥️
DeeAnna Demarest June 13, 2024
Remembering you lovingly on this anniversary 💜
DeeAnna Demarest June 13, 2024
Missing your beautiful face and spirit until we meet again I love you mama my friend, mentor and guardian angel 💜💜💜
Kim Chwascinski August 3, 2023
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Deeanna Demarest Daughter August 2, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday mama :birthday::tada::tulip::two_hearts: Remembering you on this special day and missing you bunches love you :hearts:
Deeanna Demarest Daughter June 13, 2023
I know you were cheering on Allie and watching over as we celebrated her LSU graduation :leopard::purple_heart::raised_hands::pray::skin-tone-2: Love and miss you on this special day in heaven :dove_of_peace:️
Deeanna Demarest Daughter June 13, 2023
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Kim Chwascinski June 13, 2023
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kim Chwascinski May 14, 2023
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kim M Chwascinski April 9, 2023
Kim M Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy Engel August 2, 2022
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Kim Chwascinski Has August 2, 2022
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Missy Engel June 13, 2022
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Deeanna Demarest June 13, 2022
DeeAnna Demarest lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Deeanna Demarest June 13, 2022
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Deeanna Demarest June 13, 2022
A beautiful poem for our beautiful mother :hearts: Two years in heaven it doesn’t seem so. Your infectious laugh and daily phone calls are tremendously missed but pictures and videos replay a vibrant woman who truly loved her family :hearts: We love and miss you our spunky cajun keep watching over us until we meet again I love you :heart:🥲:hibiscus:
Kim Chwascinski June 13, 2022
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Missy Engel May 9, 2022
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Missy Engel May 9, 2022
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kim Chwascinski April 17, 2022
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy Engel October 29, 2021
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kim Chwascinski August 2, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday beautiful momma! I miss you so much! I know you are celebrating with all your loved ones. I have had so many signs and I know it's you. Continue to watch over us and we hope all of us are making you proud. Love you so much momma! :heartpulse:
Kim Chwascinski August 2, 2021
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy August 2, 2021
Wishing you were here. I hope you are dancing and having a beautiful heavenly birthday. I miss your giggling when I would kiss you in your neck, your sassy comments, your advice. You. I just miss YOU. Until I see you again, my heart will be full again. Love you momma!! You are the best mom ever :heart::hearts:
Missy August 2, 2021
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Deeanna Demarest August 2, 2021
Happy birthday our beautiful angel above watching over we love and miss your sassy pants so much not a day goes by that your presence is felt and seen with the seeds you planted, well done mama see you again :heart: Love you 🦋:angel:🥰 Dee
Deeanna Demarest June 14, 2021
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Deeanna Demarest June 14, 2021
Hello my beautiful mama, missing you on this one year anniversary and pray you are looking down with the most brilliant wings surrounded by the glorious angels, saints as we’ve remembered treasured memories today with smiles, photographs, videos, music and some tears that we anxiously await our reunion in heaven. Thanks be to God for allowing me to feel your spirit in Illinois returning on quite different circumstances for a truck that I can picture you saying “Dee, I’m here baby not at the stone that covers the ground where my bones lay don’t worry I’m ok” I breathed in the comfort from seeing your apartment, visiting the salon (yes I actually got in to do a color and cut!) plus spotted the new butterfly art on the window that was not there before just in awe of God’s miracles 🦋 And got to see my sisters, couldn’t ask for a better way to spend reminiscing your precious time on earth :hearts: Sending my love, hugs and kisses :kissing_heart: Dee
Kim Chwascinski May 9, 2021
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Missy Engel May 9, 2021
Oh how I wish you were here momma. I miss you so much. I wish I could kiss you in your neck and make you giggle one more time. Happy Mother's Day. I know you are celebrating with mamom finally after all these years. I love you
Deeanna Demarest May 9, 2021
Happy Mother’s Day Mama :tulip::hearts::tulip::hearts::tulip:I can’t believe it’s already been a year since we got to share hugs and see all the kids before Jesus called you home :pray::skin-tone-2: The grand kids are growing so fast and I cooked an amazing feast of chicken, short pork ribs with sausage, rice dressing, broccoli and sautéed vegetables it was delicious you would have loved 🥰 I talked to Kim, your funny son in law Scott barked me a happy Mother’s Day lol Kimme will have to explain this new phenomenon haha he always has a good laugh :joy: I love and miss you, my beautiful Herlena hugs, kisses :kissing_heart: :two_hearts::tulip::hibiscus::rose:🥰:hearts:
Deeanna Demarest April 4, 2021
Happy Resurrection day mama :raised_hands:🦋:kissing_heart::heart: I know you are having a grand celebration and we miss your sassy pants like crazy!! Give our heavenly ancestors hugs and tell daddy no biscuit bunny but I did whip up some eggs this morning and you both would have been proud of my seafood etouffee I made for Easter at the lake it was delicious!!!!! Love you, catch my kisses :kissing_heart::kissing_heart::kissing_heart::kissing_heart:
Kim Chwascinski April 4, 2021
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kim Chwascinski February 14, 2021
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy Engel February 14, 2021
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Dee February 14, 2021
Happy Valentine’s Day mama :rose::heart::rose::heart::rose::heart::rose: I know you are having an amazing celebration with your infectious smile, laughter and wit that we still giggle of today but also know it will be a reminder of your beautiful spirit that lives in us 🥰🥰🥰 Love and miss you :kissing_heart: Sending you a dozen roses, Dee :rose::rose::rose::heart::rose::rose::rose::heart::rose::rose::rose::heart::rose::rose::rose::heart:
Missy Engel December 31, 2020
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kathy Meche December 13, 2020
Kathy Meche lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy Engel October 21, 2020
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Kim Chwascinski October 16, 2020
Kim Chwascinski lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy Engel October 13, 2020
Missy Engel lit a candle in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Missy Engel June 23, 2020
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Mary Moreno June 17, 2020
What a funny lady! She always made me laugh!. She would tell everyone around that I was "Mona's friend from 2nd grade" and it always made me feel good. She will be greatly missed. Love to Mona and all the family Mary Dorsey Moreno
Lillie Marlow June 17, 2020
Missy and Craig, So very sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. My prayers are with you! :pray: Lillie Marlow
Brittany Houston June 16, 2020
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Melancon'S Funeral Home June 16, 2020
Melancon's Funeral Home created a Tribute Video in memory of Helena Mary Duhon
Martha Maiani June 16, 2020
I Didn't Have the Honor of Knowing Her Personally, But Have Been Blessed to Have Her Daughter and Her Girls In My Life. Knowing Them Has Shown Me The Beauty, Love, Kindness and Joy That They Inherited From Our Beloved Mary Helana. May She Rest In Peace, and May Her Loved Ones Find Comfort In Knowing They Will Be Reunited In Heaven. Heaven's Got A New Angel :two_hearts::angel::skin-tone-3::latin_cross::angel::skin-tone-3::two_hearts:
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