Herbert (Herb) James Stafford, Jr.

1926 ∼ 2018

Herbert (Herb) Stafford, Jr., 92, was born in Ranger, Texas on February 4, 1926 and moved to Groves, Texas in 1935. He entered into eternal rest on March 26, 2018. Herb spent his youth hunting, fishing, and working as a soda jerk at his parents pharmacy, the original Staffords Pharmacy which became Groves Pharmacy. He went to Thomas Jefferson (TJ) High School in Port Arthur rather than Port Neches-Groves (PNG), where he was zoned, to play an extra year of football since TJ was a 12 year school and PNG was an 11 year school. Herb enlisted in the Navy at age 17, and following high school graduation in May 1944 boarded a train to San Diego for basic training the next day. He served as a 20 mm machine gunner on the USS Corson, a seaplane tender. He saw lots of action in South Pacific, and entered Nagasaki two weeks after it was bombed, where he spent several weeks. Herb was honorably discharged from the Navy in 1946. Following WWII, he went to college at Texas A&M for one year, Lamar for one year, and graduated from the University of Texas in 1950 with a BBA. Herb went to work for Jones and Laughlin Steel in1951 and spent approximately 20 years there until the early 1970s. Herb married Mary Elizabeth (Mary Beth) Daley on December 13, 1952. He became father to Herbert James Stafford, III in 1955 and Marian Kay Stafford in 1958. Herb and Mary Beth opened Staffords Nursery in 1959, and operated the nursery for almost 40 years before retiring in 1996. Their specialty was roses, and they both became Certified Rosarians. For about 15 years, they also operated a commercial greenhouse tomato operation, supplying local grocery stores with tomatoes year round. They also operated an antiques store for about 20 years at their nursery site out of a log cabin that Herb built by hand. During the 1980s Herb was a radio celebrity on a Saturday morning radio nursey call in show. Herb was involved in the Boy Scouting program as a volunteer for many years, and received the Silver Beaver in 1969, Scoutings highest award for volunteer service. He also received the Cross and Flame Award from the Methodist Church for his many decades of service to the Boy Scouts. Herb had been an active member of the Groves United Methodist Church since 1935, and was the longest tenured member with over 80 years membership. Herb was active in the Groves Masonic Lodge for over 60 years and received the Golden Trowel award. He received the 32nd degree Masonic honor, and was treasurer of the Groves Lodge for about four years. Dad was active for decades in the Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) Port Neches Post 4820. He served on the honorary 21 gun salute team for many years, and was the local VFW Commander for 13 years. He was recently honored for being instrumental in the establishment of Veterans Park in Port Arthur. Herb was an expert wood carver, and many of his carvings that are in homes throughout Southeast Texas. Santas, birds and fish were his favorite carving subjects. He was also an expert at catching redfish, and fished well into his 70s in the canals and marshes across from Port Neches Park. He was active for many years in the local chapter of the Audubon Society, and he and Mary Beth enjoyed bird watching, especially at Sabine Woods. To recognize his life-long spirit of patriotism and volunteerism, Herb was named Port Arthur Sertoma Clubs Citizen of the year in 2010, and was named "Outstanding Senior Citizen" by the Port Neches Rotary. He often gave speeches at local schools and veteran recognition events about patriotism and citizenship. Herb was preceded in death by his parents, Herbert and Genelle Stafford, a sister Genelita Stafford, and a grandson Robert Stafford. He is survived by his wife Mary Beth Stafford, a son Herbert James (Jim) Stafford, III (Patty) of Beech Island, South Carolina and a daughter Marian Ruiz (Mike) of Port Neches, Texas. Survivors also include four grandsons William Stafford (Megan) of North Augusta, South Carolina, Matt LeBlanc (Callie) of Spring, Texas, Vincent Ruiz of Tucson, Arizona, Dominic Ruiz of Tucson, Arizona, and a granddaughter Darionne Williams (Spencer) of Marana, Arizona. Great-grandchildren include Paxton, Connor and Natalie Stafford of North Augusta, South Carolina, Ashton and Everett LeBlanc of Spring, Texas and James Williams of Marana, Arizona. A visitation for family and friends will be Wednesday, March 28, 2018 at Levingston Funeral Home in Groves from 5:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. Funeral services will be at 10:00 a.m., Thursday, March 29, 2018 at First United Methodist Church in Groves with Reverend Marty Boddie officiating. Military graveside services will follow at Oak Bluff Memorial Park in Port Neches. Pallbearers are Mike Parker, Jeff Greenway, Mike Doyle, Darrell Motte, Tommy Lock, Clay Whisenant. Honorary Pallbearers will be Jim White, Otis Barnes, Cecil Vincent, Larry Neff, Ed Hebert, Reverend George Hearne, VFW Post 4820, Groves Masonic Lodge, and the Coffee Crew at Bruces Market Basket. Thanks for the special care given at Oak Grove Nursing Home and to Heart of Texas Hospice. Any memorials may be made to, First United Methodist Church of Groves.

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Anonymous April 8, 2018
I have many memories of Mr. Stafford, who's nursery was just one block from my home on 12th Street. He helped me so much, with his advice and suggestions, as I knew very little about gardening. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Anonymous April 5, 2018
Sorry to hear about Mr. Stafford. He would come to the local lumber yard in Groves and visit with us. Praying for the family.
Anonymous April 4, 2018
I met Herb at his sister's store, Hodge Podge Antiques about 30 years ago. I spent many Saturdays at the store sitting by the pot belly stove visiting with them. I always admired his Santa carvings and have several. Genelle and I would always laugh and say they all looked like Herb! My condolences to Herb's family. In reading his obituary it is obvious he was a standout member of the Greatest Generation.
Anonymous March 29, 2018
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Herb was such a kind man.
Anonymous March 28, 2018
We are very sorry for the Stafford family. Herb and Mary Beth have been friends with our family forever. He will be missed greatly. He was a great man and will be a wonderful memory.
Anonymous March 28, 2018
When Herb was at the helm of the VFW, he ran a tight ship. He lived an exemplary life of service, leadership and sacrifice. His loss will be felt by many.
Anonymous March 28, 2018
Herb was a good man and a true defender of this country that he loved so much. He will be greatly missed.
Anonymous March 28, 2018
My heartfelt condolences to Mary Beth & family. What a long life & great example he set! Much love to all!
Anonymous March 27, 2018
My deepest condolences to the family at this difficult time. I hope the words at Rev.21:4 bring you comfort. It says: "God will wipe out every tear from their eyes,and death will be no more,neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
Anonymous March 27, 2018
Mr. Stafford spent countless hours teaching me about growing roses when I was very young. He would even come by my mother's home to cgeck.on them occasionally. Many years later, as I served as a Boy Scout leader, he always had a smile, and a great story to tell. I was fortunate to spend a good bit of time with him. One of mid county's true legends has passed, and will be missed.
Anonymous March 27, 2018
Herb was the epitome of dedication and service. I learned so much from him. God bless you Mary Beth and children. God speed, Herb! Thank you for the smiles, your service to this country, Boy Scouts of America, your church and your community. I will dearly miss you.
Anonymous March 27, 2018
Herb, thank you for the smiles when we needed them the most, even if we didn't know we needed them at the time.
Anonymous March 27, 2018
We frequently stopped at the Nursery to talk about or purchase Plants or Trees or Roses. Kenneth (Mr. Stafford called him the pine tree man) would patiently wait for his chance to "talk his ear off". We enjoyed the guided tour of 'what's new', admired Mr. Stafford's baby plants & grateful for his instruction. It was our privilege to call him our friend. He lives forever in our hearts. Deepest Condolences!
Anonymous March 27, 2018
May he rest in the arms of the Lord. He had a good Life and left the world a better place. May God give strength to us family.
Anonymous March 27, 2018
If only we all lived such lives, this world would be even more wonderful. Herb was such a special person and I will miss his hugs at church. When we first moved to the area, I depended on Herb and Mary Beth for gardening education. They were always helpful and I loved visiting the nursery. Herb was one of those inspiring men of the generation ahead of us baby boomers and his example will continue to influence me.
Anonymous March 27, 2018
Mr. Stafford always affectionately referred to me as "Big Ugly" and we'd trade jabs. I moved from Port Neches many years ago but one of my favorite parts of visiting was teasing and getting teased by Mr. Stafford. Some of my earliest memories were wandering around the nursery and seeing what I could get into and learning about everything there. As a kid the whole place seemed enormous and magical and even as an adult my last visit had the same feel. Thanks for the memories Mr. Stafford, you'll be missed.
Anonymous March 27, 2018
Mr. Stafford was always so kind to me and my family when we moved to Groves. Enjoyed seeing him at so many events/functions for a variety of worthy causes (church, little league baseball, the nursery, veterans...). I liked to think of him as an honorary pawpaw to all of us. What an amazing example of a man and model of a man for our sons. I am so sorry for Stafford family, but I know you will see him again and I can only imagine the wealth of beautiful memories yall have.