Rebecca Gayle Trahan

1954 ∼ 2025

Rebecca Gayle Mckeever Trahan, A beloved mother, sister, grandmother, and great grandmother and friend, passed away peacefully in Beaumont Texas on August 7, 2025, at the age of 70 born on October 23, 1954, in Beaumont Texas. 

She lived a life dedicated to her family, and the many friends who were fortunate to know her. Becky embodied warmth and kindness making all who crossed her path feel loved and welcomed. Throughout her life, Becky held various positions, including accounts payable at Jason’s Deli in Beaumont, a receptionist at the Holiday Inn in Port Arthur, and a staff member at Dillards at Central Mall. She also cherished family time, engaged in crocheting, and enjoyed watching classic western movies. Additionally, she delighted in preparing meals for her family, particularly her boys, who will deeply miss her goulash, a dish that she alone could only make. No one could make it like mama did. Becky will be remembered as a person who could light up any room she entered. 

Survived by her sons, Shawn Messer of San Antonio, Chad Messer of Orange, Jeremy Messer and his wife Lisa of San Antonio and Eric Messer and his wife Rachel of Port Arthur. Each of her sons carried forward lessons of love and compassion that she instilled in them. Her legacy continues through her grandchildren, who brought immense joy to her life, Shane (Jessica), Kami, Trinity, Mathew, Alicia, Ashlee, William, Kylie, Sierra (Abe), Stephen, and Gabe. Additionally, she felt great pride in being a great grandmother to eight great grandchildren who filled her heart with happiness. Also four nieces and one nephew and multiple other great nieces. 

She will be especially missed by her baby as we all know and those that knew her. Her beloved dog Cricket and her cat Gabby. Becky was also blessed to have a close relationship with her siblings, including her sister Beverly McKeever of Austin and her brother Ricky Mckeever and his wife Carol of Nederland. Their shared memories and experiences remain a source of comfort and connection. 

She was proceeded in death by her beloved husband, Wilmer Trahan Junior, whose memory will forever be cherished. Her parents, Courtney “Bud” and Naomi Mckeever, as well as her brother Michael Dwayne Mckeever, have also passed, leaving a void that Becky filled with love during her lifetime.

Rebecca Gayle Mckeever Trahan will be remembered not only for the love she shared within her family, but also for the warmth she extended to those around her. Her legacy of love and compassion will continue to resonate in the hearts of all who knew her. We love you Mom…..

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Kelley Singleton September 7, 2025
As childhood neighbors, those were the good old days. May God bless you and your family.
Renee Hodge August 14, 2025
Worked with Becky for many years at Jason’s Deli, she had a laugh that was contagious! Prayers for the family🙏
Stephanie Chamberlain August 13, 2025
Praying for Bro Eric and Sis Rachel and the Messer family. May God give you peace in the coming days.
Brian McKeever August 13, 2025
We love you, aunt Becky!
Cindy Allen August 12, 2025
To a sweet NHS classmate. RIP🙏
Alyssa Hicks August 12, 2025
Sending love and prayers for the Messer family.❤️ Becky was a sweet and kind lady, she will be missed!
Shawn Pierce Messer August 12, 2025
A part of me is gone forever! You fought and never gave up. You are my inspiration to be the best man I can be! I love you mom and i will see you again in heaven.
Chad messer August 12, 2025
I love you so much, you are an inspiration to me and always have been you taught me so much! You are the best mom and friend a son could have asked for! Rest in peace mom , we love you always and forever 💕❤️‍🩹
Mr. Jeremy & Mrs. Lisa Messer August 12, 2025
You will be missed mom.
Wilton and Carol Scoggins August 12, 2025
Becky always had a sweet smile and a kind word to share with me, even when she was suffering.
Eric Messer (Son) August 12, 2025
Mom, I love you more than words can express. I miss you terribly. These past few years were the best I could ask for. I cherished our quality time together and was always there for you. Caring for you was never a burden. If I could relive it, I would. I know you’re finally free from pain and dialysis treatments. You fought a good fight and finished the race. You were the best mother a son could ever have. I love you, Mom.
Jeanne Belaire August 12, 2025
So sorry that we lost Becky. Love to you both, Ricky and Beverly. Heart felt sympathy to Becky’s kids and family
Diane Kester August 11, 2025
My sincere sympathy to all Becky's loved ones, especially my friend Beverly. May you have peace and strength.
Dani Eaves August 11, 2025
Dani Eaves purchased Eco-Friendly Memorial Trees for Rebecca Trahan
Yasmen Turner August 10, 2025
It was an honor to be part of your care. Your strength and grace were an inspiration, and your memory will remain a source of comfort to those who knew you. May you rest in peace.
Kylie Messer August 10, 2025
Grandma, I just want to say I love you so so much. I will always think of you while I’m crocheting. Rest in paradise
Sadie Clark August 10, 2025
Sadie Clark purchased Eco-Friendly Memorial Trees for Rebecca Trahan
Carrie Foster August 9, 2025
We are praying for Gods comfort for the Messer family.
Melinda Buller August 9, 2025
Our love & prayers!! Hold to the precious memories 💕🙏….Ronnie & Melinda Buller
Linda Stephens August 9, 2025
I had the privilege of meeting Becky a few years ago while working with her sister Beverly. They had that special sister bond. My continued prayers going out to this family. May God provide comfort and strength during this time of bereavement.
Mary Mackey August 9, 2025
Beverly, my deepest sympathy to you you were an awesome sister. Prayers to you and Becky’s family. Love you, Mary
Jennifer Bertrand August 9, 2025
We worked together at Jason’s & stayed friends! You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
Vicki Delaney Hetherington August 9, 2025
Becky I have fond memories of you,Vernon and I running around (What we called the Gulley) when you Aunt Naomi, Beverly and Ricky Would come visit for the summer in Montana. We had so much fun. You are in my heart and always will be. Till I see you again my dear cousin. ❤️
Rhonda and Jeff Nunley August 9, 2025
The Messer family is in our thoughts and prayers.