Ruby Lee Deaton

1926 ∼ 2015

Ruby (Reba Lee) Deaton, 88, of Beaumont, Texas passed away Tuesday, January 27, 2015 at her home surrounded by her family. She was born in Singer, Louisiana on November 27, 1926 to William Henry Foster (Cheney) and Florence Perkins Foster. Ruby attended school in Starks, Louisiana where she played on the girl's basketball team. After graduating from Starks High School, she caught the train to Beaumont where she lived at the YWCA and worked at the telephone company as an operator. She retired from South Park ISD where she served as the Librarian at Blanchette Elementary. Ruby was the first white educator to work at what was an all black school at the beginning of desegregation. She loved her students and brought some of them into her home to share in her family activities. She bought coats and shoes when she noticed students in need. Ruby taught her children the importance of faith, worship and service through her long time membership at Lamar Baptist Church. She served there in a variety of ways, from teaching women's Bible study classes to serving as the Director of their Day Care Center. She loved cooking for others and often dropped off a meal or snack for someone who was under the weather or just needed to know they were special and being thought of that day. She kept a steady stream of encouraging notes and letters going to friends and family. She showed us all the true meaning of the Spiritual Gifts of Helps and Service. Many of us will miss her pecan pie. Ruby is survived by her brother, Sam Foster and his wife, Henrietta. She is also survived by her children, Janice Deaton of Pearland, Jimmy Deaton and wife, Abby, of Groves, Kaye Reviere and husband, Michael, of Kingwood, Starlet Smock and husband, Billy, of Nederland. She is also survived by her six grandchildren, Crystal Sliva and husband, Chris, of Pasadena, Mark Deaton and wife, Stacey, of Elberta, Alabama, Amy Howard and husband, Adam, of Port Neches, Ben Reviere and wife, Lauren, of Kingwood, Matt Reviere and wife, Laura, of Nashville, TN, and Kevin Smock of Nederland. She took special joy in watching, advising and encouraging each of them in achieving their goals. She loved the visits of her 9 great grand children, Miriam and Frank Sliva, Macey and Mark James Deaton, Hayden and Carsyn Howard, Faith, Colton and Annabelle Lee Reviere, as well as her "adopted" grandchild, John Oge, of Sour Lake. She always wanted them to "spend the night", with special treats at the ready when they arrived. There are many unrelated friends she considered true family. She was a loving mother, grandmother and great grandmother, and true friend to all who knew her. She lived out her faith with quiet grace, gentle humility and selfless sacrifice. On Tuesday morning, having run with endurance the race set before her, Ruby joined her beloved husband and family in the presence of her Savior. We are sure it was a joyful reunion. She told us in the minutes before she passed, "Daddy is driving a school bus with Maw, Mercy, Bertie, Lurlene, Leo, Mildred, and Carl to pick me up. I have to get ready." What a precious picture she painted, and what a ride that must have been!!!

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Anonymous February 3, 2015
Abby and Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We did not know her, but are thinking of you all and praying for your strength and comfort during this time. As I read her obituary, I thought what a great legacy she has left.
Anonymous February 2, 2015
Ms. Deaton was so special, as were all of her family. I enjoyed so much visiting with her and feeling the WARM love throughout her house. Her obituary was also overflowing with love and adoration. I feel blessed to have had the chance to be apart of her life. God will give you peace in this time.
Anonymous February 1, 2015
We are so sad to hear of Granny's passing. She was a wonderful woman who opened her heart to so many people. She will be truly missed by all of us. Steve, Angie, Josh, and Jake Arey
Anonymous February 1, 2015
Starlet our prayers are with you and your Family. So sorry for your loss.
Anonymous January 31, 2015
Such a sweet lady! I remember her with that gentle, tender voice, her kind eyes, and gentle spirit. I was so incredibly blessed to have been able to attend her homecoming celebration! I know Jesus met her with outstretched arms and a huge "Well done!" She was truly a Godly lady, and I was blessed to know her.
Anonymous January 31, 2015
Even though it has been several decades since I have seen Mrs. Deaton, I remember what a gentle woman she was. As a first year teacher, my classroom was next door to her library. She was so kind and helped me in many ways. What a truly special lady! I hope God gives you peace that only He can give.
Anonymous January 30, 2015
Ruby was a kind and gracious lady who welcomed you into her home and made you feel so special. Our family loved her very much. We pray for her family during this very difficult time.
Anonymous January 30, 2015
I never knew Ruby, only Gran. Gran cared for my sister and me as kids while also caring for Matt and Ben. So many of my first memories in life were at her house: early education in her 'workbooks,' reading from her set of encyclopedias, having the occasional butter and brown sugar sandwich, and the ever-dreaded nap time. The love and guidance Gran showed Lauren and me, two children that were not technically family, will stay with me for the rest of my life. She was kind, strong, smart, and incredibly caring. She will be greatly missed, and I can only hope that one day my children will be so lucky as to learn from someone like her. I'm sorry to have learned of her passing too late to make the funeral, but I'm sending my very best to the family in their time of grieving.
Anonymous January 30, 2015
Kaye and All of Gran's Family, This morning I heard of Gran's passing, and am so sorry for your loss. Had known sooner I would have driven in to see you all today. Please know that she will always be so special to me and my children, Elliott and Lauren. She provided the most loving and nurturing environment for them while I was at work, and I will always be so grateful that God blessed us with having her in our lives. She made us feel like we were family too. My love to all of you, Donna Beck
Anonymous January 29, 2015
Jimmy, Abby, Mark, and Amy I am so sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to you and your family during this time of loss.
Anonymous January 29, 2015
My condolences to the family. I have so many great memories of being at Granny's house and playing with Crystal. I learned many things about kindness and grace from her. Heaven has gained a jewel, a beautiful Ruby.